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Tools for Finding Purpose: Gratitude, Small Goals, and Self-Care

I feel thankful every day for the chance to earn a living and create positive change in my life. Occasionally, it can be difficult to transition from a negative frame of mind to a more positive one, particularly when I'm grappling with intense thoughts and emotions that interfere with my ability to stay focused on my goals. Nonetheless, I've learned how to surmount these challenges by grounding myself in the present moment. Below are some methods I've written down to help me ground myself:

1. Mindful Breathing: Take a few deep breaths and focus your attention on your breath. Notice the sensation of the air moving in and out of your body. This can help you feel more calm and centered.

2. Body Scan: Close your eyes and scan your body from head to toe. Notice any areas of tension or discomfort, and send your breath to those areas to help release the tension.

3. Grounding Exercise: Sit or stand with your feet flat on the ground. Imagine roots growing out of the bottom of your feet, connecting you to the earth. Visualize the earth's energy flowing up through your roots and into your body to help you feel more grounded.

4. Mindful Observation: Take a few moments to observe your surroundings. Notice the colors, shapes, and textures of the objects around you. This can help you bring your attention to the present moment and out of your thoughts.

5. Gratitude Practice: Take a few moments to reflect on things in your life that you are grateful for. This can help shift your focus away from negative thoughts and emotions and help you feel more centered and positive.

When I used to be depressed many times in the past, I lacked the tools to overcome it. Now, I have various tools and techniques to help me minimize depression which helps me stay on track with my goals. I make sure to eat a balanced diet with protein and healthy fats like butter, which helps alleviate my depression. I also practice what I termed "high-frequency meditation" (which is likened to be a type of kundalini meditation), exercise, and utilize other techniques that work for me to stay in alignment with my purpose.

While I may not have a clear understanding of my ultimate life purposes, I do recognize that I have smaller goals that I can work towards each day. Pursuing these auxiliary goals allows me to gain clarity and insight into my larger purposes. I appreciate the realization that focusing on these immediate objectives is practical at this point in my life. This mindset helps me to find contentment in my current circumstances and work towards fulfilling my ultimate life purposes.

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